Msgs from Heart
Don’t feel like you belong? Not everything is for you. And that’s okay.
Don’t feel like you belong? Not everything is for you. And that’s okay. The other day, I was at a Loft clothing store. As the sales woman told me about the deals of the day, I felt uncomfortable. Stories began to trickle into my brain about my discomfort. Thoughts like “I probably make people [...]
Trusting the Unknown: The Goldilocks Theory of the Universe
Trusting the Unknown: The Goldilocks Theory of the Universe I’m developing a new theory. It’s called the Goldilocks Theory of the Universe. The Universe wants the best for you. It wants way better for you than you even know. But we don’t know what’s possible. We don’t know how good we could have [...]
My dignity cannot be taken, if I do not feel shame.
My dignity cannot be taken, if I do not feel shame. This post was written on Martin Luther King Jr Day on Monday, January 18th, 2021. The week of President Joe Biden's inauguration. Last week, I was spit on. I was walking down the street, minding my own business when a [...]
What if I am normal?
What if I am normal? All of my life, I was fighting to show I was special. My parents were not the type to tell me I was special, and I didn’t feel special. They thought I would have an ordinary life. Grow up, get married, have kids. I resented that this was [...]
Don’t forget your own desires
Don't forget your own desires In important relationships, we are often wondering: What does the other person want? We ask this because we don’t want to rock the boat. We don’t want to overstep for them to reject us or see us in a negative light. When making decisions, we want to know [...]
What if I make the wrong decision?
What if I make the wrong decision? Sometimes we get wrapped up in the worry of making the wrong decision. And so we think and think and think. Is it this way? Or that way? For those of us, who are Spiritually inclined / Starseeds / Lightworkers. What we fear the most…. Is [...]
Own up to your part in a relationship (Part 2)
Own up to your part in a relationship (Part 2) Trigger Warning: This is a reflection of my own experience, take what resonates and leave the rest. Give yourself permission to feel whatever you feel, that includes being angry at the other person (which I was for many years). I invite you to [...]
Own up to your part in a relationship (Part 1)
Own up to your part in a relationship (Part 1) The other person was still an asshole. The other person was still manipulative. The other person was still a jerk. The other person was still violent. But we create the story that this was done to us, and we have no power. THAT’s [...]