How do I forgive others? This article was posted on my old website, FlybirdFly.co and was written in 2018. I hope it gives solace to anyone who grapples with a similar question. Much love to you! I was once asked by a woman seeking understanding and relief.  “How do I forgive someone who hurt [...]

How authenticity is service work I channeled this story from my guide a few years back, when I was contemplating what it means to ‘be of service’. There once was a holy man, a beloved pastor of sorts, who lived in a village a long, long time ago… He had a wife and many [...]

The Beauty of Meaninglessness: Some Thoughts after a Miscarriage Dated: July 8, 2023 Last week, I had a miscarriage, I was 7 weeks and two days pregnant. My husband and I had been trying to conceive for 18 months and we had undergone two failed rounds of IVF, when we surprisingly became pregnant naturally, [...]

Being the good girl: stuffing desires into tiny jars Up until a few years ago, I had been suppressing much of my true desires. I remember being a 4 or 5 year old little girl living in a tall building in Hong Kong and having this urge to push all of the buttons [...]

My Wedding Celebration Vows - May 6, 2023 Hi Joe, it’s your wife, Bonnie. Here we are…. Almost a year after heading to Love Story Chapel, I get to proclaim our love once again, this time, in front of loved ones. In the past year, I sometimes I would look over at you [...]

Making Friends with my Solar Plexus (3rd) Chakra: Releasing the need for proof I was reading Tosha Silver’s It’s Not Your Money, when my solar plexus, 3rd chakra, became quite agitated. All sorts of anxiety came up. Over the years, I have had a love-hate relationship with my 3rd chakra. Our 3rd chakra, [...]