Msgs from Heart
How do I choose my first tarot deck?
How do I choose my first tarot deck? Your guide to choosing a tarot deck for beginners So you’re ready for your first tarot deck, aye? How exciting! With so many tarot decks out there, you may be wondering how to choose your first. A search for ‘tarot deck’ in google yields hundreds of possibilities. From Amazon to Etsy, [...]
The Beauty of Meaninglessness: Some Thoughts after a Miscarriage
The Beauty of Meaninglessness: Some Thoughts after a Miscarriage Dated: July 8, 2023 Last week, I had a miscarriage, I was 7 weeks and two days pregnant. My husband and I had been trying to conceive for 18 months and we had undergone two failed rounds of IVF, when we surprisingly became pregnant naturally, [...]
Being the good girl: stuffing desires into tiny jars
Being the good girl: stuffing desires into tiny jars Up until a few years ago, I had been suppressing much of my true desires. I remember being a 4 or 5 year old little girl living in a tall building in Hong Kong and having this urge to push all of the buttons [...]
My Wedding Celebration Vows – May 6, 2023
My Wedding Celebration Vows - May 6, 2023 Hi Joe, it’s your wife, Bonnie. Here we are…. Almost a year after heading to Love Story Chapel, I get to proclaim our love once again, this time, in front of loved ones. In the past year, I sometimes I would look over at you [...]
Making Friends with my solar plexus (3rd) Chakra
Making Friends with my Solar Plexus (3rd) Chakra: Releasing the need for proof I was reading Tosha Silver’s It’s Not Your Money, when my solar plexus, 3rd chakra, became quite agitated. All sorts of anxiety came up. Over the years, I have had a love-hate relationship with my 3rd chakra. Our 3rd chakra, [...]
Motherhood does not complete me, I complete me.
This article is a continuation of Jumble & Flow series, 'Pregnant over 40' chronicling my journey in trying to get pregnant as someone over 40 years old — See series articles: Why this 41-year-old went off The Pill two decades after deciding she never wanted kids - July 2021 - Read here This middle-aged woman’s [...]
Queens, united: a poem
Queens, united: a poem We need bold ones. We need quiet ones. We need nurturing ones. We need stern ones. We need heart. We need anger. We need passion. We need empathy. We need to be heard. We need to be still. We need to be impactful. We need to be real. We [...]
When the judgment tug-of-war goes rampant
When judgment tug-of-war goes rampant Have you ever had one of those relationships where you feel judged by someone? I mean, I’m sure you have. Everyone has. Maybe they act cold around you, or say little things (or big things like be right out critical — but that’s a whole other article about boundaries). [...]